“There are
insights and emotions that can find you in no other way than through silence
and within silence.” - Susan Scott,
“Fierce Conversations”
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| Atacama, Chile. A place of solitude where I have embraced that fierce, internal conversation in life's disappointments. |
If you take
risks, you will endure disappointment. Perhaps you will fail yourself or fail someone else. Maybe someone
will fail to keep a commitment to you. The timing of your new venture
will be wrong. Your new product launch won't catch fire.
When disappointment comes, you won’t like what you feel. When it comes, you likely will be more than a bit inconsolable. When it arrives, you likely won’t be proud of your behavior. You may sulk. You may withdraw initially. You may play the role of a victim.
Is there a way to avoid disappointment? Absolutely not. Not if you intend to make an impact or achieve some work that is really worthwhile.
So buck it up. When disappointment comes, take Susan Scott’s advice and move into what feels like an even more dangerous place than disappointment – silence. Sit with your questions. Refuse to self-medicate your unease. Allow for a pause.
Why?
Because in
silence will come a new way of accepting your part in your failures. In quiet
you will gain clarity and find new direction. In the pause of life you will
find a recommitment to your vision, purpose and desire to make an impact.
What choice
is there for you anyway? You won’t
settle for failure and you won’t settle for no impact in life. At your very core, you sense you must make a
significant, positive impact in life. So embrace disappointment and move on
with renewed knowledge and intensity!
